Mini rant

Had a m/c early this month. My hubby was the only one who knew we were preggers we didn't tell anyone cause I wanted to wait 3 months to be sure everything was good. We didn't tell anyone we lost the baby, I assumed we were not going to cause it's really just out business. Found out today hunny told. His dad and his newest girl friend out our loss. I'm kinda shocked since his dad displays such dislike for me as a person. I'm just to confused why he would tell a person who doesn't really give two craps about me. I know it seems good for hubby to talk about it but we talk about it. When I said I didn't think we were telling people he said "I thought he might take it easier on you now". Like a I need a pitty party from this man. Grrr