cheating on my fiance?

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I know im going to get judged for this, but i just need to vent. So, me and my fiance have been on the edge lately. We only have sex like 2 times a month and we argue all the time. We sleep in different beds a lot of nights. We just dont have that spark we used to have. He has some stuff going on in his life that is not the cause of our relationship problems, but he needs someone to be there and im the only person he has so i feel stuck right now. Recently i started talking to an old fling and he wants to have sex again, i really dont believe in cheating but at the same time im not happy and i need sex! Idk what to do...i dont want to leave my fiance in a time of need, but i also dont want to continue to be unhappy

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In my relationship, talking to a former lover with the intent of having sex IS cheating. But anyways...if you can't stick it out with your fiancé solely because you 'need sex', reconsider your engagement. If you 'feel stuck' because your fiancé is going through personal issues and needs the support of his life partner to-be, reconsider your engagement.

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You need to leave him. Because you should not be feeling this way at all about the person who you apparently want to spend your life with. You're about to make a vow to stay with him through the good and the bad, and if that means you don't get sex for a year because shits going on then so be it. The last thing you should be thinking about in this situation is yourself if your partner needs you.

Leave him. He will find someone that will help and appreciate him more- who cares more about standing by him than getting a sexual fix. It may be harsh to hear, but you're being selfish in your engagement.

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Well there's only really two things you can do. Be a complete asshole and cheat on him (I DONT suggest doing) Or do the right thing by leaving him and moving on. Cheating is disgusting and I don't see the point. If you're not happy, leave. There's no one making you stay in that relationship. If you do cheat, I hope your fiancé finds out, as he would deserve much better.

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Have the courage to be honest and walk away.

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If it's even crosses your mind to cheat on your fiance DON'T. You need walk away from the relationship, lying and cheating isn't doing anything. If you don't want to be with the person and you want to be with someone else then leave the relationship. Your fiance is going through whatever , you don't need to add to the problems.

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....or why not talk to your fiance about why you're unhappy? Do you not love him anymore? Communication is key in a relationship.

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You shouldn't have to feel "stuck"!! But cheating is wrong, but you know that so I'm gonna lay off that side of the topic. But, for your and your fiancé's happiness, I would end it! You both deserve someone who is going to make you happy! And it's okay if it isn't each other! I would talk to him about all the problems you're having but DO NOT mention the fling. Just cut it off, for now. But if you bring up the fling, that's all you'll fight about. And you don't need to fight, you need to talk about the future of your relationship! Best of luck 💞

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You need to be there for your fiancé talk to him! Communication is key to every relationship

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I think the feelings you have are normal as far as feeling a lil overwhelmed by the relationship and tempted by an outsider. But as a women you have to decide to women up. When you take short cuts and take the easy road you set yourself up for even more ofnit in other areas of your life. Cheating is not a good moral pronciple. and often opens a door to becoming a women of low caliber, let alone th possible outcome could be being exposed, getting std, pregnancy, and terminating your current relationship. Is that really wortht it? You said your fiance the one you are about to take vowels with is struggling... you need to figure out how to strengthen yourself so u can also help him and be there during this difficult time. Also.... i know they call it karma... but sometimes the good or bad we do to and for others has a way of revisiting our doorsteps. You choose what lands on yours🤔

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Break up!! Quit wasting your time and his! Such bs. If you're not happy make a change so you're not destroying someone else

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