just need a "best friend"

So my mom called and said she's having chest pains.... like contractions in her chest. So I did what everyone shouldn't do and that's google the symptoms and it popped up that it could be a heart attack. So that made me start thinking.... my parents are getting older (not that old) and my SO and I are also getting older (were only 20,21) not super old and now I want a baby. I want my parents and his parents to be in our babies lives. And I do not want to be an old parent, that's just not for me. We wanted to wait until I finished college and we actually had real money coming in. But whose to say in a few years anything will get better. I'm just venting and no one seems to care they just listen but I want to have a real conversation about this. Even my SO dad was like hey son I'm not getting any younger where are my grand babies? I just want someone who acts like a best friend and give me some advice ANYTHING.