Depo Shot Question

So I recently got married and I decided that I do not want children yet. Responsible me talked to my doctor and after going through all the BC options, I decided to go with the Depo shot. After the first day of having the shot I was extremely sick with high fever, thowing up nonstop, sleeping for constant hours and vision loss we figured it was because of the shot. After we went on our honeymoon everything seemed normal and I started loving the shot. However my sex drive is completely nonexistent and I read that that is a side effect. My husband is starting to get upset because we stopped completely. I'll be going to the doctor soon to get the next shot and was wondering if any other ladies had this problem and if there was anything their doctor had said to fix this. Thank you in advance