I'm sort of dating a guy I really like...we've been hanging out/dating for about a couple months, never kissed or anything. I've known him since June and we work together. I've been crushing on him pretty much since we met but was trying my best to get over it and not try to pursue anything until he started showing signs that he was into me as well, then I couldn't really hold myself back. At this point I've been back and forth/in conflict with whether or not I should pursue this because I have herpes/trauma from my last relationship. He only knows about the trauma which I told him about so he knows I want to move slowly. I don't want to lead him on but idk when I should bring up the herpes talk. Idk what to do. Being this conflicted is exhausting and depressing. I REALLY like him but can't decide if I should keep dating him. I'm still struggling with my diagnosis I've had for ~5 years now. I'm scared to even kiss him for fear of passing it on. He's the first person I've dated since the diagnosis/past relationship. I'm being held back by my diagnosis. Advice on how I should proceed? Thanks!