As of today my boyfriend and I have been together for a year. The problem is we hardly have sex with each other now. I would initiate it and he'll tease me like we will but it doesn't happen at all. We went from having sex at least 6-8 times a month to now, which is once or twice a month. Recently, I have drop weight, and never had much confidence to fully wear a bath like suit from Victoria Secret I had purchase. I got all sexy and wore my suit to get things startled. What had happen was I ended up going to bed.

In the beginning he or I would suggest sex. Sex feels great with him, I love it; the downfall part of it it doesn't last long. He says its because my kitty feels so great and there has been a few girls in his past that doesn't get him off BUT he use to have a sex addiction? Okay. . We both watch porn. Usually when I did, it'll be a way for us to get it on, it turns him on. We both know I now watch more porn because he doesn't want to have sex with me. He watches porn but sneaks it behind my back.

I have tried everything in the mid beginning, he loved it. Now it just doesn't seem to work. I had overheard him giving advice to our roomy because her man didn't want sex. My BF said that "sometimes its because you wake up everyday to the person and living with each other now can stray sex." Keep in mind, before we lived together; the beginning of the relationship we lived together within 3 weeks.

So what is it? Also, when his friend from H.S comes around (male) everyone can see a whole different him. Could he be gay?