Ladies have u ever had an attitude problem ? How did u fix it?

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I swear i know i have an attitude problem , i tend to say whats on my mind and sometimes it comes off rude but i wouldnt mean for it to. Sometimes my boyfriend tells me im mean to him but i dont understand how. Any advice would be great , im really tryna change myself from having an attitude problem 🙁  Please no negative comments!

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I'd take a week to make yourself pause, and think "will this improve this person's confidence or help them if I say this" ... Kinda re-train yourself to associate wirh positive thoughts. Not everything needs an expressive opinion.. Sometimes it's best to stay silent and observe

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Gum and sunglasses.

I have a attitude problem but worked in a field that required me to bite my tongue a LOT, if indoors I chewed gum to help catch my tongue, if outdoors I chewed gum and wore sunglasses because I have a bad habit of expressing my attitude through my face without realizing it.

If I'm not working then I'm a pretty straight forward person, I've toned it down a lot over the past couple years though, not sure how, guess just from growing mentally.

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I'm a straightforward person. I have a no nonsense attitude. This sometimes causes people to think I'm cold, rude or whatever. So I have learned that just because I am thinking it, doesn't give me the right to say it. What it comes down to, I ask myself if I really care about the issue or topic. If I don't, then I keep my thoughts to myself unless I'm asked specifically. When it comes to my DH, we pick our battles. I really do keep my remarks in check, because In the end, we aren't trying to hurt each other. I have no desire to ever try to cut him down. So I choose my words carefully and my intonation. Tone is everything. Just remember, it's not what you say, but HOW you say it. It'll get easier with time.

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I really encourage you to visit liveyourtruth.com

I've always been the same way as you because I'm a type 4 personality. I have become a much better person since I studied the 4 types of personalities found on that website. I understand myself better and am able to understand other people better and accept everyone as they are- including myself. Seriously, learning from that website has changed my life and my marriage and even my wardrobe.

She also wrote a book called "The Child Whisperer" that really helps parents understand their children based on their personalities.

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Still working on mine

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Yes. You just have to consciously think before speaking. Not that hard

Ladies have u ever had an attitude problem ? How did u fix it?

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