relationship advice please.

so its kind of long but please co operate.. so me and my bf have been together for more than 6 years.. and m 20 hes 26.. i have done some stupid things in the past but i ve made all my efforts to mend it..but my bf dsnt seem to be over it all. secondly when i entered college i met like minded people and we bcme friends. now i have a guy friend and we are like very good friends .. he has a gf and i have a bf and we have no feelings for each other except tht of friends. and we talk like whenever we are free n he has alot of other friends too that he is close to and are girls. and he gives them as much time as he does to me. and i dont have any other guy friend whom i talk to that much. but my bf has alot of problem with that. he dsnt seem to understand and we have fought alot over it and every time i ve tried to tell him that u are my first priority and love and he just a friend.. but he dsnt seem to get it and now i m tired to dealing with this problem.. its been 3 years and i feel like going away from my bf..what should i do.. i dont feel like.aming any effort.  please help.. 😔