Venting. Am I wrong?
Ok, so I don't know if I'm in the wrong or not.. My boyfriend of course drives to work everyday. His brother just got a job at the same place. His brother lives on the way to work, somewhat.. My boyfriend has to jump on the highway to work but has to jump back off to get his brother in the morning. Its about 7 mins or so (depending how traffic is and these snowy roads are) to get to his brothers house off of the highway. He doesn't give gas money and tells/ expects my boyfriend to come get him for work. One day, he didnt call him until he needed to leave for work so he could get there on time, meaning pushing it to make extra time to go get his brother (even tho his brother knew the night before he was going to ask for a ride just didnt until the pushing it time). Mind you this is MY truck, I paid for it and paid it off. Also, my truck needs an oil change right now. My point is that I'm getting at is, when my bf needed a ride to work, he wouldn't give him a ride (bc he didnt feel like it) and he would have to walk to work and he would have to leave in the middle of the night bc the walk was about 3 or 4 hrs in order for him to arrive on time.... But now his brother needs a ride and he just is all willy nilly about doing the shit, it pisses me off.. Am I wrong for feeling this? I feel if family dont do it for you when your in a time of need and they have the ability to do so, they should, its family. But I dont feel you can have double standards and expect it out of your family if you dont do the same... And his brother has never done anything for me but once without getting paid to do it.. So.. I'm not feeling too wrong in this situation, I really need someone to talk to about it bc it keeps getting brought up and I just say the facts that his brother wasnt there for him when he was walking for hours and didnt give two fucks.. Negative itches, don't respond.
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