Ectopic pregnancy? or Miscarriage? or Perimenopause?

Rebecca
Has anyone had this happen to them Have been trying for several months to convieve I started with a red color blood then like two days later was brown its light too then its spotting for the rest of the time lately my period has been lasting for like 9 days with spotting right now on day 13 Also cramping on my left side only Had fibroids before but like 5 months ago was told don't have them any more I just was wondering if anyone has this problem I'm 39 years old also