TTC- Found out husband has HSV

My husband and I have been together for 4 years. In that time he's never so much as had a single outbreak but when sores appeared few days ago he got tested and we found out that he has HSV.

We are trying to conceive and I'm nervous about the potential for miscarriage and passing it on to the baby.

It's quite possible that I have it but I'm not sure yet if I do as I haven't gotten tested yet. We did have sex during the outbreak when we initially thought it was just an ingrown hair. If I contracted it a few days ago it wouldn't show up in my blood yet right?

I would love to hear stories from people who have successfully had vaginal births and people who are living fulfilled lives with their significant others. It would make me feel Better.

Please