Would you date a 30+ old man/woman who lives with their parents?

Question

What do you think of a 30+ year old man/girl still living in their parents basement with no job, would you date them ? Or run for your life ?

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It definitely depends on the circumstances, as someone else already said.

I'm 33 now & had to move back into my parents' house last year, with my (then) 3 year old son. We're still here now, but I am doing everything I can to move to our own place. It's a long story, but it boils down to me making the mistake of moving out of state with my son's dad, where he wouldn't allow me to work & also wouldn't help pay for anything (even for his own son). I spent all of my savings, then had to sell my stuff to be able to get back to my hometown.

Up until last year, I'd lived on my own since I was 17...

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Depends hun the circumstances, is he willing to get a job or just wants to bludge and forever be at home with hes parents, my partner is 30 and we were living at hes dads for a year when we forst got together im 19 now and he had a full time job and supported me it really depends but if he is a nice guy and is willing to be there for you and be kind to you and appreciate you then why not x

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Thats depends. For example, my aunt lives with her mother (its a Garden with two houses, really close) she is 50 yo. She works, has a car, insurance... She lives there because my grandmother is very old and cant take care of my grandfather alone. He is 96 yo and has Alzheimer.

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Hell to the no. I'm sorry , but I would need that person to have a sense of stability (IN THEIR OWN HOME) none the less have there own responsibilities . Most people that are that old still living with their mother are also still having their mother do everything for them. 
If they are fully capeable and not handicap there so reason for it .

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Depends on the circumstances. What if he's the parents only child and sole caretaker. Or they may be living with him. It's not always just black and white.

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Unless their was some very valid reason, probably not. I was thinking of saying yeah sure but when I read and without a job, eh probably not. Again everyone situations differs, I'd definitely give someone a chance though, you can generally tell whether or not someone is in that situation for a good reason vs that they're just lazy/deadbeat.

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My oldest sister in law still lives at home at 33, but she at least has a job and stays because my father in law dotes on her (much to my husband's and his middle sister's dismay). She does it because she's allowed to. No bills besides her phone and car insurance, because her father pays for the car. She's definitely the favorite child.

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It depends, if he doesn't work because he's a full time carer for his parents then maybe if we clicked, if he had no job, wasn't willing to get one and his parents were supporting him then hell no.

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Well I just bought a home and my mom and brother lives with me . My husband died two years ago and my dad three . So we live together because we are all we got and if someone can't deal with that then they are not for me .😒

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For one, I wouldn't date a 30+ year old. I almost didn't date my fiance because he was 26. My norm is 19-23. I don't date anyone younger than me. They're always older by 6 months to a year, but my age (19) is acceptable. I've only dated one guy younger than me and that was my 8th grade year. 
For two, I believe by 23 you should be out on your own.

Would you date a 30+ old man/woman who lives with their parents?

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