anyone else?

Anyone else find it irritating during sex when you get so close to climax and you say "keep going" and they stop.... like wtf... my ex did that a lot. I'd also occasionally move his hand where I want it and put mine over it to show him what I'd like but he would get angry. Or when he would rub my clit so fast like it was a race.... I know what my body likes. So frustrating. I got a new man that does it perfect. I swear it's like magic. But anyways, just wanted to see if anyone else can relate