think i deserve more time

so i live on campus which isn't that far away but i'm a freshman and because we can't have cars on campus i don't get to come home often. i'll come home on the weekends and my boyfriend will give me certain nights but a lot of times he spends the days with his friends or he'll take me with him to go hangout with his friends (in other words he takes me to his friends house and i sit on my phone the whole time while they do whatever) and 9/10 times i'll go and then when i say i don't want to he gets confused and asks why like… i want to spend time with you not watch you spend time with your friends? and when i come home during long breaks he'll give me like random days here and there throughout the week and doesn't give me the times we kind of agreed on because since i'll be here longer he has more chances to hang out than usual, and he says he's trying to divide his time and spend time with everyone, but i just feel like he's not dividing it right. he gets to see his friends everyday during the week, when i come home for the weekends i feel like i deserve that time. it'd be different if it was from time to time or if he already made plans a while ago, but if he gets to see them on a daily basis i feel like when i come home i deserve more time than them, not equal, they hang out almost every night during the week so even if he did spend more time with me on the weekends than them, in the end they still get to see him more. i don't think i'm more important than his friends but is it weird for me to think he isn't dividing his time right

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