Casual Sex: A little more than just casual?

Question

So recently I started college and I lost my virginity to someone who did not have intentions of continuing contact with me. Which is unfortunate at first but things happen and I realized he wasn't for me anyways.
That being said, since then I have been having lots of casual sex (safely of course) and somewhere in the back of my mind is always that it will turn into a relationship or me not just getting screwed over. I love sex and I don't mind having casual sex but it is beginning to have a negative effect on me. I feel like I am being used and disrespected. I don't necessarily feel like I want a relationship but I don't like how it feels like guys can just use me for sex and then not speak with me and if I try to talk to them about it I'm "crazy" and "obsessive." I just feel stuck. How does one explore their sexuality while remaining mentally healthy and respecting yourself?

Answer

You need to understand that it's simply casual. If you don't want something casual and you don't want a relationship, I think it's best to take a step back and really figure it out. You could try friends with benefits if you still want contact with a dude or whatever

Answer

If you want casual sex that means you're their sex doll and they're your dildo, sorry to be vulgar. Lol but if you can't view someone like that essentially then hookups may not be for you. If you want to be respected and have something come from it, then that needs to be established in the beginning. Otherwise they owe you nothing but respect for the rules you lay down within the encounter and of course consent.

Casual Sex: A little more than just casual?

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