I'm not ready for sex..?

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 month now and he says that he's ready for sex. I'm kind of nervous because I'm 15 and he's 17 but I want to make him happy. I really love him and I'm pretty sure he loves me too but I still get really scared when he gets in the mood and I'm not because he gets really upset when I say not yet. I already give him handjobs and blowjobs but he says its not as good as sex. I just want to make us both happy but I don't know how.

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If he cares for you then he wouldn't be trying to pressure you into sex when you're ready then that's when you should give yourself to someone.  Someone who will wait for you

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If you're not ready then you don't have to do anything. You don't have to do anything physical to show how much you love him and he shouldn't pressure you into anything if he really loves you.

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Anyone who really loves you will wait until you're completely ready to have sex.

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Ya, don't do it. Just by what you're saying sets it up to be bad for you emotionally

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You don't owe him anything, and he should understand that you're not ready. You're only 15, technically you aren't old enough to give consent. You have to be 16. Also, I would wait at least 6 months to a year, but that's me. Your words are very important. Make sure he knows that if he tries anything without permission you will leave. Be very careful and stay safe girl ❤️❤️❤️

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Don't have sex with him just to make him happy

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If you've only been together for two months and if he's making you feel bad for not giving him sex then that's a red flag. You should only do it when you feel ready and he should respect that.

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You will regret it, do not have sex with him because he obviously does not appreciate you enough. I'm 18 and almost everyone of my friends that aren't virgins say that they regret it and wished that they had waited to have sex. Plus it most likely will not feel good if you are nothing but nervous and do not want it in the first place, do not let him take something so precious away from you girl, good luck make the best decision 🙈☺

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Find someone that wants to be with you. Sounds like he's using you

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It's all bullshit. I dated a damn hot guy for two months my senior year, but he made me feel like shit all the time because I didn't want to. I thought I was happy, but he was the worst. I know it sucks to say goodbye, but think about all the respectful amazing guys out there who you could end up with.

Tell him that's how he makes you feel and if he doesn't feel like a load of crap for making you upset and worry and agonize about making HIS LIFE HAPPY, then you say you cant handle the stress and you leave. If he apologizes and keeps getting upset, it's the same thing. He just thinks that if he makes sure you don't leave then he's getting some. That's not the end goal of ANY relationship.

I'm not ready for sex..?

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