Have any of you moved in with your SO while in college with other roommates?

Question

So my SO and I have been together for a while and are thinking about moving in together. My rent starts in August (we will be together for 1 year and 8 months at that point) and I will be living with 3 other girls. One of my roommates is my best friend and she would be so excited for him to live with us. One of the other girls wouldn't really care either way. The last roommate we don't know who it is. Do you think this would be too complicated of a situation or do you think it's a good idea? Any suggestions?

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Don't do it. Roommate situations are difficult enough. If you want to live together get your own place.

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My now husband moved in with me and my roommate. It didn't last long tho, she was uncomfortable and moved out.

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I think you need to sit down with the other girls and talk to them fully about it, and make sure you are all on a same page understanding, if one of them feels uncomfortable don't do it, it's not worth messing up a living situation, but I would definitely make sure you talk to all three before letting him move in

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We didn't, but I know people who have and don't recommend it. It adds a whole new complication to roommates, and seems like if the roommate is/are on one person's side it can cause resentment.  It also makes it harder for you to work out junk in your relationship.

Have any of you moved in with your SO while in college with other roommates?

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