I can't make up my mind!

Charlotte • Charlotte Mathews
So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 years (in Feb.), and I really want to have sex with him. But he's very scared that he'll get me pregnant (and yes we would be using condoms). We fool around here and there but never had intercourse before. We both come from a very religious and well respected family so if I ever got pregnant that would hurt both of our families. Every time I asked he in the past he would say no but recently he's been up to the idea of finally having sex. We're planning on getting married in about 3-4 years and I don't know if we should just wait and let our first night of marriage be magical or just have sex with him already (before he changes his mind).