Is it just me or are there more ladies that do the same?? When I'm in the mood to have sex with my husband I have all these dirty thought but I can never get the nerve to say it aloud or to act on these thoughts. It's like I get really shy. Why do I do this? I need to find the courage to say out loud and act on these things I think of trying but I am nervous about what he may think since we have been together for 8 years and I have never done it. I just want to make sure we keep it interesting. Can anyone help??