Baby Depression

So me and my husband have been trying to conceive for several months with no luck. This will be baby #3 for me and baby #1 for him. Recently I have had several associates get pregnant by men they can't see them spending a month with let alone the rest of their lives. So naturally most of them are getting abortions because they don't want the financial burden of another child. Me and my husband are very stable and well off and would kill for the chance that they are being given. However, we haven't been that blessed. It's very depressing and I try to be happy for those around me who want to keep their child but I'm very bitter right now and don't think it's fair.