Me and my husband love children so we definately want to have kids. We are lovingly married for 7 months but we haven't been having much sex. Firstly, we practised abstinence when we were dating, so the 1st few times was extremely painful. We put off sex for a few months before trying again. Subsequently, intercourse is still painful, but we haven't been having much sex because he is always tired after coming home from work. Esp the times i feel more "horny" during ovulation period, i can see my husband really want to try but he is very fatique from the stress he faced at work. We would end up chatting with each other til we fall asleep. Sometimes we can go without sex for a few weeks. This is a bit frustrating for me.