Ok so today in random conversation with my boyfriend he mentioned to me that he felt like he didn't "do" enough for me. I was stocked but didn't overacted I was like really, why do you think that? I'm 100% happy with him and I'm so grateful to have him our lives? So I asked him what he meant by that and he named two vacations that we took together that I surpurised him with. I explained to him that we when first met traveling was important to me and we go on vacations because they are very meaningful to me, we can develop special memories and that I love him and this is just one of the ways express my happiness and this wasn't a competition.I asked him did want to stop me from planning vacations and he said no. I feel so horrible now, I feel like I'm not giving him an opportunity to be a man and treat me to some of the things I guess he should be doing for me but I don't care about who does what for each other it is really the thought that matters to me the most. I have a surpurised planned for Valentine's Day and I don't know if I should even go through with it because he might again feel bad that I'm gong all out for him and maybe not in the same way. Any suggestions would be grateful. :(