Am I wrong?

My boyfriend went to go to a snowmobiling race. I live with him and his family but he never told me about this race. Obviously I knew it was gonna happen because his dad was talking about it. They own a snowmobiling store so it's important that there there. His friends came over to the house this morning, wake him up and left.

Now here's the thing. I'll be 39 weeks on Monday, I could go into labor at anytime. And he just leaves? Didn't even really tell me about it, but I knew because I heard conversations.

Should I be mad because he left with me being super pregnant or

Should I just be okay because all his family is expected to be there?

Also, he didn't invite me to go. For that matter none of his family invited me, but I didn't want to go anyway because I don't want to be standing in the cold watching races so it's not like I was gonna go anyway.

Am I overreacting :/

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Mi

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My husband doesn't leave my side for the last two or three weeks before I'm due. I don't know how far away the race is, but if it's a significant distance, I'd say it's pretty selfish of him to go when you're so vulnerable.

Al

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He probably didn't tell you because your pregnant. Not to be mean at 39 weeks he didn't want you to pop in the snow. I wouldn't react. I would just do some ol' me time until your bundle of joy comes. With races like that involves very cold atmospheres. Its not mean he busts wants you to be healthy and warm.

Ca

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I don't think that you are over reacting at all. He should of spoke to you about it especially seeing how far along you are he needs to be with you just in case you were to go into labor.

Br

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I wouldn't say your overreacting.. You just feel left out... Everyone wants to be asked.. Even if the answer is no

An

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He probably didn't tell you cuz you may have been very obvious about not wanting to go.Like really? I was 38 weeks pregnant and my husband worked 2 hours away from home and I had no issue with it because you'd know if you were going to go into labour soon. Just cuz your 39 weeks doe at mean you'll deliver tomorrow. They just consider full term between 38 and 42 weeks because the baby doesn't new help to live outside the womb after that medically. You may end up having to be induced.

Ca

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Not overreacting but I would definitely say something after he comes back.. That way if you don't go into labor you don't come off as the crazy prego but if you do go into labor kill him

Em

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I don't think you are over reacting. Even if you weren't pregnant... he should have told you and talked to you about it. It's called respect and he needs to know it's not ok. When he gets back, sit down with him and tell him how you feel

JS

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No you're not overreacting. It might be a little different if he discussed it with you, asked if you wanted to go and then gave you a list of cell numbers incase you did go into labour. They probably assumed you didn't want to go but either way, everyone likes to feel included. I've learned a lot about how (some) men act when they are about to become father's and it's definitely not how you would expect.