Is the woman or man to blame?

Question

I see a lot of posts on here of women asking advice on what to do in situations they've gotten themselves in with married men. My question to you ladies is, isn't it getting old just blaming the woman? I've seen women being torn apart over this. Obviously both parties are to blame but ultimately the person who is married just went against the vows they took to the woman they claimed to want to spend their life with. What are your thoughts on this? I'd love to hear different perspectives.

EDIT*- do you think the woman should tell the wife/girlfriend after the act is done? I personally would want to know.

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It's both of them. To blame the woman solely is just ridiculous.

I actually had an affair with a married man. He take full responsibility for my actions. Looking back, he did manipulate me by saying things like "being with you makes me happy and that makes me a better father." And telling me they were going to divorce. I should have known better. But I was young and dumb. He was older and a lawyer so a master manipulator. In the end, it was both of us who fucked up. Thank god his wife never found out and no one got hurt.

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They are both too blame

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I could careless about her. She'll be a slut with or without him.

Him, on the other hand , will get it. He is the one who made a commitment to me and our relationship.

😡😡😡😡

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They're both to blame

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I've always wondered why on those shows like cheaters where half of them just spend the time beaten down the person their partner cheated with and being like that my man blah blah etc lol it's also really big with teens where if their boyfriends (I haven't seen it much with guys as I'm not a guy so don't have much experience) have cheated/hung out with another girl they just start rumors about the other girl to "destroy the competition" very very sad.

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The other woman came for me 😂 and I laughed and laughed and laughed. He was her problem then. Took her 2 years + to get the picture. Must've been a difficult pill to swallow.

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They're both to blame, but I feel the man should be even more at fault than the woman.

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Both are to blame.

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Both.

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You take responsibility for your own actions. If you are participating in an affair, it is very much your own fault.

Is the woman or man to blame?

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