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Question

Me & my SO have been together about 3 year's and for the past year he's been a bit of a ass! Basically he always has ago at me if I'm in a bad mood or I'm just not up for a chat  but yet when he's not in a ok mood and I say something to him he always says ''I can't be in a good mood all the time'' so basically he wants me constantly to be happy because he wants me too! but yet he's allowed to be in whatever mood he wants.. sorry if this doesn't make much sense I don't really know how to word this.

Answer

I do understand what you mean. My husband and I went through a really hard year recently where we both hated our jobs. Since we were both unhappy, we were pretty nasty to each other sometimes. We didn't make the connection that our fights and hurtful words weren't the product of us hating each other, but rather the fact that we were stressed and taking it out on each other. Now we have different jobs and are soooo much nicer to each other. I still notice that he's kind of a jerk when he has a bad day at work.

Point being, maybe he is stressed or something is going on. No excuse at all for him to take it out on you, but maybe you should ask him if something else is bothering him. I bet he would appreciate that you care enough to ask

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