Sorry it's so long :/ I need opinions/experiences.

So this is my first pregnancy and I'm not really sure what to expect when it comes to doctors visits. I'm 9 weeks 3 days and I've already had 2 visits,My 2nd one was at 8w5d and my next one is 11w5d..well my last appointment all my doctor did was weigh me, blood pressure check, a little conversation/info, and an attempt to find the heartbeat with a hand held Doppler. She also said it's too early to hear with that..but maybe my next visit. It could be me, but I feel like she should be doing a lot more! Especially seeing lots of women on here have transvaginal ultrasounds and are already seeing their little one. I'm thinking about changing doctors but I was wondering is this normal for some doctors?? I'm waiting fir my new insurance to kick in to look for a new doctor.. Thanks guys for answering! :)