3 years ago I met a kind and loving man, he treated me well and it was long distance so I guess we really didn't know each other well enough to decide what we were really like and a year later we moved in together, he's been secretly messaging other girls when I slept, making lots of accounts and everything was just constant lies. He was VERY controlling, I lost a lot of friends because of him and I couldn't even go out or have male friends because of this man, he insulted me and made me feel ugly, I had enough of it all after I discovered a few things and I decided that this is it. I don't need a man that treats me this way.