am I the only one?

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Am I the only once who doesn't get so mad about my man watching porn and masterbating. Like you do you babe sorry I can't help out more. Just like us females "need" a sexual release our man do to and if you can't or won't give it to him than don't make the poor man hold the urge it. Let him do what is a natural thing for him to do...

Just my opinion.

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I tell my boyfriend all the time he can masturbate whenever he wants 😂😂😂 he usually doesnt though and holds it in lol, But i masturbate and hes okay with it. But sometimes we even masturbate together and i think more women should try that too. Cause ever since the first time it happened, it made him see like okay this is what she likes solo so let me try it on her 😮. Its weird and extreamly intimate but its fun because its like a new level of sexual intimacy in the relationship 😊😊😊

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Exactly!! It's not a big deal. Sometimes you just want to get off without all the work of sex; it's not even a problem.

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I don't care if mine does it.

He never has to though because I'm a legitimate sex addict and will always, always accept - any time, any place - and am very open to trying things. I do it more than my man does because he's at work all day and I have needs 😂

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I don't mind it we both work a lot on different shifts and only get one or two days together so I allow it

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Thank you y'all. My man and I watch porn together sometimes and even I watch it masterbate without him. Like it's plain and simple it's nature

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Some women do care. As myself, we don't do that in our relationship because it's OUR choice.

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It doesn't bother me as well. We arent together 24/7. He works far away. We see each other when we can. I do it, so does he. We've gone to strip clubs together. We have fun. We don't make a big deal out of anything. We don't fight or argue. We both have friends of the opposite sex. I don't get the need to control someone. Or be jealous or insecure. Unless he stalks the porn person down and actually has sex with them which one of my exs did with a woman that did big girl porn, married her and she divorced him. She cheated on her husband to be with him and she cheated on him left and right and even came back pregnant. She used and manipulated and controlled him. He couldn't see his friends or family and both were abusive.  Serves him right for cheating on me to be with her. But anyway. Unless he stalks her out and actually cheats it's not cheating. He doesn't wish you looked like her or wishes he was having sex with her instead of you etc. It's something people have always done. It relaxes them. Helps them sleep. Stress reliever. Something to do when you are bored etc. Babies even do it in the womb i have seen an ultrasound of it. Why would you deny someone something they enjoy. It's not an issue unless it becomes so frequent that you can't function a normal day at wor or have to 50 times a day and can't work etc. Telling a guy you can't do that. Would you want him saying you can't shop or talk to your friends or whatever you enjoy or that relaxes you. You can't drink wine or take bubble baths. I don't see the need to control anyone.  And if someone is truly unhappy they don't have tonstaybor will seek out happiness elsewhere. I would rather he be with himself than someone else. We have complete trust. He works with strippers and djs, even a swinger sex club etc. He would not jeopardize what he has for a fling. Been together 4 years. Couldn't be happier.

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I don't care if mine does! 
Shit I watch porn and masterbate without him too! Lol I don't believe it should be as big a deal as many women make it seem! 
If he has a porn addition and chooses it over you- that's different!

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I don't care if my man does

am I the only one?

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