I'm a hormonal mess, please help :)

Lizz • I`m charmingly quirky and oddly classy
Recently noticed my increase in sex drive, and it's driving me insane. I'm kind of disappointed, actually. There is a guy who I have a crush on at school, he liked me for a little bit, And then told me that he was not ready for a relationship. That's okay, I understand, and it's totally normal... but after that happened, I began to obsess over him. The thing is, I don't think that he's that attractive, nor do I think that he is that great of a person, or even my type, but I think that I'm romanticizing romance more than a romance deserves to be romanticized. I just can't stop thinking about him. 
I've come to the conclusion that I'm not attracted to HIM, but I'm attracted to the idea of being in a relationship.
I'm usually not the person that puts their happiness in other peoples hands, and I'm really disappointing myself in this situation. In fact, I'm usually very strong, bold and independent, but honestly, this situation has made me rethink everything I believe in. I'm not chasing him, I'm obsessing. It's NOT healthy, and it needs to stop. Why can't I just be happy being single?
I don't know what to do, and I really, really, really need advice. I'm stumped. It's gotten out of hand.

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