sex at 14?!

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I'm 14 years old and I've been seeing my boyfriend (15) for 5 months now. We have been close to having sex once or twice and he wants to have sex now! He said he wants to go bare and then pull out but honestly I don't trust that... please help what do I do?!

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Just don't have sex. Honestly I feel like you're just too young & 5 months is just too short. You have your WHOLE life.

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Don't trust that. Lol. I wouldn't trust any boy with that. Especially not at the age of 14. If you're starting to do stuff like that in your relationship, you need to be able to speak up for yourself and express what you are and are not okay with. Personally I think not using AT LEAST a condom is a terrible idea. I'm 14 too and I wouldn't risk getting pregnant if my life depended on it.. And it kind of does. You have a lot more life to live before getting pregnant so look into birth control and condoms if you're going to engage in sexual activity. And read up on how to use it correctly. Do a lot of research on it. And if you don't want to have sex, then don't. Make sure you voice your opinion too. Let him know if you aren't comfortable with something.

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Tell that man he better wear a condom or use his own hand 😂

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Condom! Condom! Condom!

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wait until you are older! you definitely don't want to risk getting pregnant at your age. you also want to lose it to someone you care and about and feels the same about you. you will be so much happier if you wait until you find the right person.

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Oh god.. If you're going to have sex, USE PROTECTION! Every single time!!!!!

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I'd definitely wait until you're financially ready for a baby before having sex (condoms can break and birth control sometimes fails). I got pregnant with my son at 18 the first time I had unprotected sex (yes I was a virgin until the day after I turned 18) so at least if you're going to do it use a condom/birth control and use them every time. Don't trust him to pull out because most don't have the self-control to do it in time and even then you can get pregnant from precum so definitely use protection or don't have sex if he won't

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No no no! Don't do it if you aren't ready, and don't ever do it without protection! No offense, but you cannot trust a young male. They will do anything to get in your pants, they'll talk you out if using a condom, you'll get pregnant and they'll leave you to do everything by yourself. 
It's better to not have sex so young. Just focus on school please.

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Tell him to use a condom or shut the HELL up and use his hand. 
You don't need no baby. It just takes ONE TIME.

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Girlie you need to consider waiting. Or at least getting on BC & definitely wear condoms!! They don't only protect unwanted pregnancies but condoms also protect against unwanted dieseases. Think smart!

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