He's discouraged..

So when my man and I do the deed, I'm never able to cum. I enjoy sex, we always have fun lol.. but today he finally mentioned that he's noticed he's never made me cum... I mean that's how some girls are and I thought he knew that buuut I guess not.. Idk what to say to him, like I say I enjoy it and I'm always in the mood when he is. I need to work on my dirty talk for sure bc I know if I do that while we're doing it he won't focus on the fact that I just won't cum..

Any tips? Maybe on how to show him I do enjoy it, maybe something to spice it up. I was thinking starting off with some dirty talk, dressed in something he'll like, maybe add in some more foreplay than usual? Just so he knows I can initiate it and that I really do want it and enjoy it.

Any tips on how to start that off though.. I go a little blank when we get dirty or when I'm in the mood so It's like I'm too shy to initiate anything..... any tips will help!