We want to start having children and we can't decide how many we want. (I know we may change our minds as time goes on.) Sometimes I think I'm better with kids one-on-one. My husband has said maybe we should only have one child cause it's not as stressful. I can't imagine not having more than one though.. I used to want a big family. I've always loved kids. I have three siblings and I can't imagine my child not having siblings! How did you decide how many to have?