sick of hearing this

My family meaning my grandma tells me all the time you can't enjoy life because you're always trying to make a baby instead enjoying life for one I haven't been really trying to have a baby anymore since December when I had that big bleeding accident and found out I had a miscarriage haven't been trying anymore I'm scared of going through that again so how am I not enjoying life having sex every day is enjoying life doesn't matter if I'm trying to make a baby or not as long as I'm with my fiancé doesn't matter if we're having sex or not we're having fun I'm enjoying life and when my daughter is here with us which is all the time because she's homeschooled we're having the time of my life I hate when people assume that you're not enjoying life because you're trying for a child some people make it their job to make a baby but don't assume they're not having fun this is just random don't have to read it or anything I just needed to say something out loud