am I a horrible girlfriend??

Question

Sooo I have just started a new job and with the new job comes new co-workers who are awesome, we clicked right away BUT that's also the problem. There is one guy who I spend most of my time with (a lot of alone time). As I work long hours as does he I'm a with him 70% of my day minus sleeping hours and I have started to think of him ina sexual way, it's even come to having dreams! I would never act on it! I can't stress how much I love my partner and wouldn't do anything to hurt him I just feel so shit hat I think this way about someone else! I don't even find him overly attractive there's just something!

Answer

no but set boundaires so u wont slip up in the heat of the moment type of situation. like if ur starting to feel like ur flirting stop and consider what ur doing. how would u feel if the situation was reversed?

Answer

You're always going to be attracted to other people as well, it's the fact that you don't act on it that makes you loyal and in a committed relationship:) it's not terrible and eventually they'll go away:) suppressing those thoughts from time to time does help! But yeah, no don't feel bad about it, it's natural:) hope this helps! Good luck! ❤️☺️

Answer

I don't think you are a horrible girlfriend. I also believe it's totally possible to be attracted to more than one person at once, without dampening the feelings for your partner. It happens, it's natural. And like you said, you wouldn't act on it, and that's what matters.

am I a horrible girlfriend??

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