my baby dads is trying to take my baby
Me and boyfriend broke up am pregnant and told him of course and am more then willing to comparent and be fair. Every weekend is Fine if am working and he wants the baby for the day that's fine too he's family that am close with like he's mom and grandparents are more then welcomed in my book to see the kid and babysit. Here's the problem he doesn't want to be one child support which I can understand because he's doesn't hold down jobs for long. But am trying to get my own place for me and the baby through section 8 which is a groverment funded housing program which might force me to put him child support. Now this is all maybe babies not here yet and I havent been approved for the program yet either. But I told him all of this. Here's the problem because he might have too pay child support am a bitch and he wants the baby the baby half a week which might be okay down the line but my new child is not going to be away from for half the week am sorry I'm not doing it and he's reason for this is because the more he has the baby last he has to pay which isn't how that ducking works anyway! The fact that's it's not out of love is even more sickening my babies isn't a toy I'm not using my child as bargaining chip by any means. And won't allow him to either. Then he's the killer he threatens to take me to court and get full custody! Like are u ducking kidding me! First off there's nothing nothing unfit about me other then money I work full time I'm in school I'm 20 and doing my best I try my hardest and 2x that since I know am pregnant now and am not just doing it for me. Since I've found out I've been invested I love this baby already wholeheartedly and unconditionally and would do any and everything for it. So if he wants to go to court then we'll go! Is there anyone that's been though this am I doing the right thing?
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