Husband doesn't want to feel the baby kick.

I told my husband that I can start feeling movement on the outside of my stomach now. He nodded and turned away. I started poking at the baby to see if I could get him to kick so my husband could feel it for the first time. I told my husband what I was doing and he says "Ugh DONT DO THAT. I don't want to feel it kick. I'm only going to feel it if it's STRONG KICKS."  
I was pretty hurt by that because of how he's been acting this whole pregnancy. (He wanted this baby). He won't let me buy diapers. He won't let me put money aside. He won't stop vaping around me. He doesn't like discussing names. He doesn't ever want to look at ultrasound pictures. At ultrasounds he just plays on his phone. I feel so alone in this pregnancy. He also tells me how bad my face looks because I've been breaking out since I got pregnancy.  Did anyone else go through this...?