why can't I find love

Question

Every guy I meet we always end up breaking up. I'm scared I'll never find the one for me and have to live my life alone. Living a life without love is scary. I know that saying "don't search for love, let it find you." But I'm scared it'll never find me. I just want to be in love with someone son. I want someone I can hold for the rest of my days not just a  temporary thing....I'm 20 years old I log on to Facebook and see my old classmates getting engaged and married and I long for that to have a life long partner. I'm in college I would really love to find the love of my life here. But the way things are going it's never going to happen. 😭😭😭

Answer

I'm 22, 23 in a month and I've never had a boyfriend. It doesn't bother me because I like being single and I'm not a codependent person. You need to focus on yourself and don't think that being single defines you or is anything to be ashamed of. I was like you when I was in college because all of my friends are in relationships and I thought something must be wrong with me because I wasn't in one. But I just believe that whoever I end up with will be worth the wait. Plus I'm super fussy! You'd rather wait and be with the right person than be with someone wrong just to have someone, right? And it is true, if you're searching for it, it will make things 10x worse. Just be you, be awesome, and the right person will find you :)

Answer

Because you have that outlook yes never look for love be in love with yourself first love is supposed to make you feel better not fill in empty spot for you watch soon as you start focusing on yourself it will come just take it easy your still young

why can't I find love

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