Is he too big? Am I too small? Is there a problem?

Question

My boyfriend of a year and a half and I tried to have sex for the first time about a month ago. We tried two nights in a row but we just couldn't get it inside me. We haven't had the chance to try again since but is there a problem with me?? How can we fix this?

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Just keep trying. Maybe some lube will help. It took a week for me to have sex for the first time because I was soooooo tight. We just slowly kept at it, we tried a little everyday. Comical looking back on it lol

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I suffer with the same problem I find it too painful so I clench up but use lube because we can't get it in unless I use lube so just do that and make sure he's gentle so it definitely goes in. If you don't mind me asking how come you waited so long to have sex?

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Babe your vagina can pop out a baby, his dick will fit in fine. Your vagina can get wet with foreplay but it only opens up when you're ready.

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Do you guys do foreplay? That's really important, especially when you're new to sex. Just trying to get it in without being wet could be the issue.

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It's hard to at first, takes a few tries. You need to be relaxed and very wet. Gotta add- make sure you're using protection.

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My first time was just the tip and we went slowly trying when we had the chance until we fully did it. It will probably hurt a little, but you'll be fine. Do some foreplay to get yourself ready.

Is he too big? Am I too small? Is there a problem?

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