Change in sexual behavior?

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So my husband and I were joking around the other day about him wanting to put it in my butt. I made the joke that we are gonna have to get him a pocket ass ( don't think this exists lol) so he can have it when i don't want it. The conversation then turned to he wouldn't mind having a pocket pussy for me to jerk him off with or for when I'm not in the mood. This coming from the man who don't want to use any kind of toys not even a butt plug to help get me ready for the D or even one of those ring things you get at Walmart in the lube section nothing. All of a sudden he wants a pocket pussy? But nothing for me i don't need a vibrator or anything he says i have his dick. He also never wanted me touching myself during sex either the only time i ever did it was the first time i squirted and it was cause he wasn't getting it right and i really needed to be relieved (this almost a year ago) now all of a sudden the other day he's telling me to rub my pussy while he's giving it to me good and he's sucking on my fingers to get them wet first. Telling me to cum all over his dick. It might just be me but these feel like major changes in my husband's sexual actions and i don't know what to think. Do you ladies have any opinions on the matter?

**So i asked him about it and he says there is no change that my hand was there and that he doesn't really want one.

I told him he seemed serious the other day and that he sucked my fingers and told me to rub myself and he replied with ok i was half asleep. Smh I'm going about this gently and have no attitude at all but i feel like I'm getting some from him.

Last update. No porn he just thought I'd like it and he doesn't really want one just more or less wants to know what they feel like. Which kinda means he wants one lol and i just ordered him one it'll be here in 2 days i hope he's a good kind of surprised and not a wth kind of surprised. Little nervous.