Sex / Virgin

I'm a 20 year old Virgin. I'm in a relationship And we Been together for almost a Month. We was Talking for a Year till we made it official on my mom birthday. I'm Ready for sex But I know it's gonna Hurt. On valentine Day He Ate Me Out. He pushed his tongue inside and it's hurted. He finger Me and that was the worse. I want to know How Can I Make it Less Painful😆😡