Your experience with anal for the first time?

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I'm about to try anal for the first time and I'm kinda nervous...I've gotten fingered there before years ago and I hated it but my boyfriend wants to try it and I want to try it too. But I  just feel like there's always gonna be poop in there even after I pooped!! How do I clean it out? And will it hurt a lot? I need all the advice and tips I can get 😭😭😭

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He didn't get the tip in before I was yelling at him to get out! 😂 good luck

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Not my favorite, but my SO likes it so he gets it about twice a year! I am uber paranoid about poop so I use an enema before hand. Like a few hours before we do it. And at first we used numbing cream but he said it made him feel numb and he couldn't cum so we do without now. And I will wear a butt plug too before to help stretch it out. Idk if any of my preparations actually help but it makes me feel better knowing it's gonna come out clean (he doesn't know I do that) and he gets so turned on knowing I have a plug in.

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Feeels amaaazing😍😍😍😍

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My 1 time hurted like hell 😒😕😒😕 end up shiting 💩💩 my So Penis🙊😂😂 😂😂 . He didn't care though but I was embarrassed , All I can see is use a numbing cream or spray for anal it hurts less. Till this day I still hated 😢 .

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Lots of lube! It won't be that bad. Good luck and I hope you end up enjoying! 😊 My first time was an accident on my honeymoon. My hubby was jokingly poking around down there with his penis... all of a sudden he says, "Whoops!" 😂😂😂

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Depends on the partner. My ex it was okay the first time. My bf now OMG! I couldn't sit down for a day. I'm convinced with his size and I'm petite things just.....idk lol I was glad when he said he preferred my sweet spot(vagina) 😂😂😂

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Spend some time working up to it first! Take a couple days or a week even!

Day 1 - Let him finger you there for a while.
Day 2 - Use a butt plug or a toy made for anal "training" and maybe get a few different ones ranging in size. Start small!
Day 3 - Work up to a bigger toy!
So on and so forth for however long YOU need, not him.

Try it when you are ready and comfortable. Make sure he is patient as it doesn't feel great right away and he eases in, the head is the worst part in my opinion. Use LOTS of lube, we use Uberlube and it is FABULOUS!

You can even touch yourself (I use a vibrator on my clit) while he puts it in and I always notice it hurts less when Im orgasming!

It is enjoyable once you get past the painful part!

I have cried during anal and made him stop before he really even had a chance, but after we started working up to it, buying toys and making anal play part of our normal routine, it has become easier and more enjoyable for both of us!

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Lots of lube, specialist anal lube if possible? If you're UK then Ann summers booty lube is great.
Don't use numbing lube as pain (or atleast severe pain) means something is wrong and numbing lube will just cover that up.
Start of slow, spooning position on your left side is easiest, touch yourself to relax and make sure he is patient, little bit by little bit and stay calm- if you start to panic or freeze up at all you will clench and it will hurt.
Once you're relaxed though it's great and definitely worth it.
I prefer to have a shower first and use a soapy finger to give it a clean though nothing too thorough.  Good luck x

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My first time was in a hot tub on the beach in mexico & was on accident & it didnt hurt we did it again 4 hours later on purpose & that time it didnt hurt either

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You don't need to do anything to "clean it out". I'd suggest that you try it a few hours after a bowel movement, or at least make sure that you don't do it when you feel like you'll need to poop soon.

Use lots of lube, then add a little more.

I find that the spooning position is often the most comfortable.

You'll be way more relaxed if you've alresdy had an orgasm. Lots of foreplay is key here.

Your experience with anal for the first time?

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