No bump just fat 😭😭

For some reason my stomach is growing but not like a bump more so just fat! It's so frustrating having people I know come up and touch/poke/feel my stomach and they say "Wow you've grown so much". But my stomach is soft when I press on it, not firm like it should be. Ugh, can I just have a big, firm bump already so I stop feeling like this? Better yet, can someone please reassure me if this is normal or not? First pregnancy and I'm losing my brains 😂😂