Feeling discouraged

Monica • I`m a 30 year old military wife and mother to our 9 year old son, Rylan and daughter, Maci who is 4.
I have been positive all month long so far!! Even when I had strep troat and was running a fever I knew I'd get better soon with my antibiotics. Well know DH is sick and he was running a fever all last night! My fertile week isn't until Jan 30-Feb5. Tomorrow (Jan 22) will be my CD 10 so I was going to give SMEP a try then.  I feel like since we've both been so sick it's not going to happen this month for us :( and if it doesn't happen soon we will have to pause because of his upcoming deployment :( ughhhhh. Sorry just needed to rant!!