breastfeeding isn't working 😔

breastfeeding really does create a bond and I love it. My LO is 11 days old and breastfeeding was going great until day 7. She falls asleep on me and when it's time to offer the other side she doesn't take it. Then 30-45 minutes later she wants to eat again. I have been pumping to help her get what she needs but it makes me sad that it's not working for me. breastfeeding is what she does with mommy and only mommy and I feel like I'm not doing what I'm supposed to 😔