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My SO sometimes has gaps in work, when he has these gaps he spends usually minimum 6 hours of the day with his friend going the gym.

I'm 39 weeks pregnant and keep saying to him that it's not just gonna be the two of us much longer and try to plan things to do together but I feel like he never wants to spend time with me.

This morning I asked if we could go shopping at least 5 times for last minute baby things. Didn't get any response. Suddenly he gets a call off his best friend asking to go gym and he's out the house within 10 minutes and has been gone nearly 5 hours.

It's fucking pissing me off he does it at least 5 times a week.

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Unless he's on a game show, I don't think people spend that much time in the gym in one day. Looks like some red flags to me, especially that you're pregnant and he's not spending time with you. I'd follow him 😆

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I would go down to the gym and see what the f he is doing for 5 hours. And then I would start laying the foundation for life as a single mom and make sure he understands that if things don't change that is what will happen.

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I love the gym... I spend a good amount of time there but there is absolutely NOTHING you could do there for 5 hours unless you are working there. I used to spend about 2 hours between warm up, cardio, weights and stretching...... my husband is out in 1.5max.  I would follow him to the "gym" and see what he's really doing.

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5 hours or more is way too much time at the gym. My bf would workout for 2 hours only but hasn't been able to as much lately due to added stress from one job. I would be upset too and I'm not pregnant

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This seems like he might be elsewhere. I'd follow him.

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