ASK HIM ANYTHING: Q: What are guys biggest turn-offs?

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A: Simple... Clinginess. Drama. Unending insecurities. Jealousy.

If those things keep happening, we get tired of it.

Be confident in who you are, do your own thing (at least sometimes), and keep the drama to a minimum and we'll be cool.

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Often the insecurity and clinginess can be avoided if the partner has an awareness of their actions that trigger "the clinger"
Past traumas cause reactions to certain behavior. Ask questions, be aware of your own actions and have healthy communication!!

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Yeah I didn’t appreciate the way this was worded lmao maybe your girl has trust issues from past trauma. Not that it’s your duty to change that because hey it’s a relationship you’re not supposed to be her therapist but maybe she needs some support.

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Yeah. Some women overdo those things. A lot of men do too. I agree that is a turn-off. However, like others have mentioned, many women are very insecure because of past trauma and it’s unfair to just right it off as a turn-off without offering some support and understanding. Also, the wording used is interesting. Those words can actually mean what they mean. When typical fake “nice guys” use them they mean something different. Here is my translation.
Clinginess = Being more into this relationship than I am and expecting me to spend time with her and give her affection 
Drama = Having strong negative emotional reactions to things I do, when I know I didn’t do anything wrong. She claims otherwise. She just doesn’t understand me.
Unending insecurities = Expects me to care and be supportive when she is feeling bad about herself or our relationship 
Jealousy = Gets mad and bothers me when I show sexual interest in other women or appear to be cheating

ASK HIM ANYTHING: Q: What are guys biggest turn-offs?

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