Am I overreacting?

My husband always tells me I want a fairy tale, and that isn't realistic. This is my husband and I's 2nd child. I always imagined that when I was pregnant my husband would be that husband that loves to rub my belly, talk to our baby, rub lotion on my belly, be excited about coming up with a name and getting the babies rm together, and all the other things you see in other people's relationships. My husband just isn't like that. He didn't start touching my belly til about 5 months, and that was only after I told him. He's never talked to the baby, or really done anything I imagined. It makes me feel crappy. I get progesterone shots every wk, and it cause a huge lump in my butt cheek, and I ask him to help rub it out and he bitches. He's only done it twice for like 30 seconds. If I don't ask, he doesn't do. I feel like my emotions are in overdrive. I know pregnancy does that, but it just makes me think about our whole relationship. Am I living in a fantasy that isn't realistic?