What do I do?!

Question

I just found out my best friend and the man who has stolen my heart is doing drugs to get through his shifts as a truck driver. I am so anti drugs it's not funny but I also don't think it's my place to tell him how to run his life. I have 3 kids I have to protect too. My instinct is tell him to get lost, but should I stick it out and see if I can get him away from it all?

Edit: I have talked to him about it and he says he will stop if that's what I want! I'm just not sure how I feel about it all!

Answer

Ok truck drivers do get randomly drug tested. He will lose his job and that will be on his record and probably ruin other jobs for him in the future. If he knows this and is still doing drugs, then that's his problem.

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Give the chance to stop and if nothing changes let them know you have to do what's best for you and your children ..

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Noooo. I mean how do you really know he's going to stop? That he's just not saying that to make you feel better and stay? Because now what is he going to do to stay awake. I've just been down the road of dating a drug addict(which I don't think your SO is,just the point of it) and I just put myself through pure hell when I could of and should of left before we got to into it.

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If you're dating him I'd talk to him about it. Like you said, you have kids to worry about and him doing drugs is not the kind of influence you want on them nor is that the kind of person you want to be with. Let him know how you feel.

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