Am I overreacting

!!!RANT/QUESTION!!!

Very long post sorry. Delete if not allowed.

Okay so me and my fiance have been together 6 years, I am from Maryland and he works and still lives in Philadelphia, we are now expecting twins, he's had plans of moving down here or me moving up there for a while now it just hasn't happened ( he can be a bit of a procrastinator)

Which I've been fine doing this I'm used to it, see him 2 or 3 times a month, but with twins on the way things have to change, okay so here's the thing right now I live with my dad and my brother my mom passed away in 2015, me and my fiance have both agreed actually it was his idea that if we move somewhere in between Maryland and Philadelphia that my dad and brother should move with us because my dad isn't getting any younger, here's the thing we were supposed to move sometime this year he was getting a loan to buy a house and we were going to move where he could be home at least every night after work, now that I got pregnant he says that we can't afford to move anywhere and that he'll just have to travel back and forth from Maryland to Philadelphia every day for work, like seriously! No I already know what's going to happen I'm going to be stuck with twins most the time by myself, so I said to him a couple days ago if we were going to get a loan for a house anyway and I'm paying rent here there really is no more on an expense to move, I'm not living in a small 3 bedroom townhouse with twins they won't have a bedroom they have to stay in our room, he says they don't need a room for another 2 or 3 years, my question is am I crazy for not wanting to share my room with babies I know they're going to be in here with me and I'm fine with that but I want them to have their own room too and he acts like it's no big deal, am I overreacting or would you feel the same way,

Sorry for the very long post.