Venting a little/Asking advice

I get on her and read some of you guys stories about your drama and love stories and positive/negative pregnancy tests. Just wanted to say we as women go through a lot of bullshit and we love hard and we want is to be loved back and appreciated as much as we appreciate our loved ones. Just recently (8months ago) me and my husband decided to split and I still feel so lost without him but i also know that it was for the best. Im just trying to figure out how to get out of this depressed stage. I know most of you are going to be like get out do something meet new people. I try but I also have a 2 year old daughter who is spoiled beyond belief behind me lol I cant go anywhere too long before she starts giving the babysitter problems. My bestfriend is pregnant and almost due. I have a few other friends/associates but their out doing their own thing. I guess what Im asking is, What do you ladies do for fun? Or how do yall balance your life between family, social and work?